Category Archives: Relationship

Grow in the vibration

When you love yourself as we do, Dear One, you will not allow relationships that are not aligned with your highest good into your life.

Original art by Adene Gold

Original art by Adene Gold



As in nature, the plants and animals take what is offered and grow as a reflection of it, trusting wholly and completely the vibrational law. There is nothing currently in your life that is not an opportunity for growth.








This is a preview of the Divine Michael Deck. The ebook is available for free. Book a reading with your new deck to introduce the deck to your energy.


Start the daily investigation of your connection and ability to receive the messages the angels have for you TODAY. Be one of the first to get a reading with the new deck!

Divine Michael presence


Original work by Adene Gold






Family harmony is illusive.  As those closest to you continue on their path, your most powerful support comes from compassion for the trials at hand. 

You have been chosen to be together for the lessons that living on this planet has to offer. Do not judge each other. Judgement creates boundaries that limit not only yourself but the potential of the lives of the ones you care for.

 Download the full version of the booklet today

rely on alignment

In your relationships you settle and make excuses because you are not fulfilled. You are too permissive. You allow the relationships to persist because you do not believe you deserve more. Your standards for yourself are lower than they need be. Once you acknowledge the discrepancy, you begin to see clearly who you are and what you want. You need to allow the universe to provide this for you by not doubting one bit that you can have it.

Aligning with your true self is key. If you saw yourself the way the angels do, pure beings of Light and Love, you would never allow anything into your life that did not produce happiness and fulfillment. There are always opportunities to create  new boundaries in every relationship. Aligning with your heart will give you the strength to demand what you need to be happy. Happiness is a belief away.


We have been seeking outside ourselves for completion. The energies are available now to go beyond this limitation and create a union with your Higher Self that supersedes the singular attachment to one other person. Your connection with your Higher Self brings you the capacity to love more completely the experiences and all the interactions you encounter with such passion that you are fulfilled regardless of expectations.  The expectations fall away and disintegrate in this Love.

All humanity awaits this time to expand into the love but do not be fooled into thinking this has anything to do with your union with another. Unions have a purpose, a purpose to bring you a mirror to show you more love.  This love is a reflection of you. You take it with you always. There will never be a vacant or lonely place in this expansion.

You are everything you ever will need to feel whole and complete.

True Romance

True romance begins with your relationship to yourself. You have heard this before but it just does not sound like fun. It depends on where you are, in your relationship to yourself. Learn to love being alone. This is not lonely. Cultivate your own interests and joy in the things you do. Your joie de vivre will catch like wildfire and it will not ever matter who is there to share it with. Mother Gaia feels the love in your life and she appreciates the lightness in your step.

Your relationship with your physical body must be elevated to enhance the vibration of joy you are able to exude. That is why love making is so much fun. All physical activity brings the hormones into balance so that the perspective changes from chores to tasks; accidents to events; from tragedy to lessons. Change your perspective today and DANCE!

Strong Boundaries

All aspects of femininity, within both male and female, young and old, and across generations begin to understand love through boundaries.  It is not the surrender of self that is the true expression of love for another.  Never through this sacrifice is it possible to  develop and support each individual in their highest form.  Trust that as each person awakens to self-love, only then can they love another.  Generations have given over there power to an ideal.  The ideal is not real.  It has been presented to you to distract you from focusing on the only matter, yourself.

To break free of these false bonds, you start with Love. Through expressing your love for yourself and others you will transform your relationships. Choosing to attend to dreams and aspirations, fills you and makes it possible for you to support others to fulfill their dreams. Be creative and find your laughter. You can do this so gracefully.  There are those who will grow with you handsome who won’t, most importantly, you find your happiness.

Strong boundaries are necessary for a happy life.  Do not over extend yourself.  You must care for you. Take time for yourself like you have not allowed in the past. Without guilt, as you deserve you own love first and foremost.


Beauty is all around you.  You need to make the declaration to perceive it.  Your own beauty has everything to do with self-care.  You are all Divine children, full of beauty.  Glow in the knowing and exploration of the Light you shine particular to you.  You have been encarnated at this time to bring the gift of your beauty.  The simplicity of the word beauty holds volumes of meaning.  Each One has defined their version of beauty in through their own experiences. Do not discard it.  Mother Earth needs all interpretations of beauty to be represented.

There is beauty in suffering, in courageousness, and contrast… see it, note it, voice it.  Allow your brothers and sisters to open to the experience of your perception.  Each One is part of the puzzle.

Notice how it all fits.  Nothing is out of place.  The synchronicity can be heart-wrenchingly beautiful.  Celebrate humanity.  Celebrate the freedom to choose to see beauty.

Cunfessions of the Mutha

There is incredible magic available right here, right now.  We are all gifted, special and unique.  When the sunsets and the violet-blues and fuchsia pink set you in awe, you are one and the same, elementally.  The mission, if you choose to accept it, (insert the music of the movie Mission Impossible) is to make it your focus in your life to find out what you are all about.  What magic have been borne with?  Can you allow the expression of all that you are or do you squash yourself down because you have been taught otherwise?


It was killing me.  My life, my choices.  The weight insulated the true expression of me until it hurt.  The weight on my chest made it hard to breathe.  I had no idea how I even got here.  I was doing all the “right” things.  I was following an ideal of my personal truth as far as I believed it could be expressed. I put myself on a railroad track with no adjoining course.  The cavernous guilt bore a whole through me, a so I ate.  I cooked elaborate meals and ate. I poured my love, my heart, into my food.  Soon that was getting to be a burden as well.


So I made skincare.  I couldn’t eat that.  I created beautiful products for my family and my friends.  I was reaching, searching for me.  Still, I was engulfed with the solitude of my existence. I hoped the creativity would lead me to the magic.  My heart yearned for a connection to something bigger.  Somedays I got close, when I woke with a dream about a new recipe, I would run downstairs to start the fire and let things come together as the dream inspired me to do.  It was a brush with the creative force of the universe, but really, only a brush.  A water color streak in the blank canvas of my life.  When I was not creating, could barely function doing the mundane.  I did not understand why my life had, seemingly all-of-the-sudden turned on me.  The simple joys of my family were no longer.


I was horrified to realize I could not enjoy my children like I used to.  I became impatient.    Endless hours of playing with dolls or Legos was a thing of the past.  I no longer put my energy into exploring their world.  I let them do their world.  I knew they would do well to explore without the despondency I carried.   They did as children do, continue on, finding their way, fearlessly.


The loneliness engulfed me.  I was suffocating.  A cloud of dense fog surrounded my senses making it difficult to even decipher how I felt.  My children reached out to me through the fog and I would resurface momentarily, until my eldest daughter became depressed.  I could not help her and I knew that it was because I could not get my shit together.  She was reaching puberty.  A time when the young woman needs a strong example to emulate. I really looked at myself and recoiled as I was not the woman I wanted to be, nor was I the woman she needed me to be to make this transition.


My whole being searched for something, anything to tell me the truth.  “Give me something to believe in again!”  my heart screamed out in desperation. I had glimpses of my effervescent childhood, full of joy and imagination. It haunted me.  Could I still be that same joyous being?  God held me in his embrace.  As a young bubbly girl, the security of His Love freed me from the worries of humanity.  Light and love poured from my eyes into the hearts of those around me. It effortlessly poured out of me.  In the complete acceptance of myself, I embraced all.


In that absolutely clear place of loving my daughter more that myself, I was lead to further my quest.  Watching her lie on the couch day after day, was all I could bare.  I felt her despair, her utter loneliness.  She, with an open and generous heart, tried to live here amongst all the pain and jealousy, mistrust and betrayal.   Her relationships began to fail her.  Her friends betrayed her trust, her parents distrusted her experience.  I could not show her it was worth it to continue, that there was a more glorious expression of life than the one I was portraying. She looked at me, she witnessed my pain and loneliness as I served and nurtured everyone around me, taking no heed to the calling of my soul.  A mother cannot hide from her children, nor them from me.  We have made the commitment to be partners this lifetime and I am eternally grateful.  They inspire me to remain in the flow of love so that they can remember they are never alone.


It is for them that I dug into those ugly dark places in my soul and worked so diligently to  recreate my life.  These memoirs are the events that lead me here. It is a surreal recount of the inner workings of my soul, unravelling.  The intimate whisperings of my heart are raw and unedited.  The journey is fierce and treacherous effuse with craggy outcroppings of unresolved pain.  As in the hearts of all who were born here, we hold untold misery and deceit from lifetimes of abuse.  At birth into these bodies, the abandonment from Source commences.  The ego manages to take the place of Source.   Acquiring financial stability, material items, or a plethora of degrees cry out for fulfillment and satiation.  Yet the insecurity remains like a child that is criticized by our parents, we bend over and work harder towards a fictitious end.  The criticism stems our own thoughts planted there by institutions and society mores that create fear and enforce the  separation we start to feel at birth.


Personal integrity create a sacred space around you that makes it possible for you to enter into genuinely heart felt interactions with others.  Your ability to honor your own truth affords the opportunity for relationships, even the most transient, to enter into a depth of integrity that fosters expansion.  The daily dedication to your dreams creates hope and inspires others to reach beyond the illusion.  If you can daydream, than you can rise above the current reflection with ease.

Upon waking, set your intension to a place of ease.  Appreciation for the gifts of today: a simple meal, the warmth of the sun, a child’s laughter, will bring peace.  Reside in that place.  Do not allow thoughts that do not support your peace.  Financial flow has the same energy as health and happiness.  It does not require a different focus or effort.  Allow the universe to provide your needs through generating peace today, in this moment.

This work is the way towards effortless life.  The only way to contentment is through appreciation.  A genuine love of the current ease in your life will bring more ease.  This is the goal of every life.  This is the miracle healing we can foster for ourselves and for everyone we meet.

The mask you where on occasion is unnecessary.  Learn to Love yourself as we do, Dear One.  Celebrate the uniqueness that is you.  Find and appreciate yourself as you would a rose in full bloom.  You notice the color, shape and size of the flower.  You enjoy the fragrance but you are not obsessing over the thorns.  The thorns are there but you avoid them, respectfully.  If a thorn were to attach itself to you, you give it the attention it needs to release yourself from it and still admire the rose.  You are the rose.  Your thorns are attributes that have a propose.  They are to be respected, noted when they surface and released as put of a function, nothing more.

In the same way you approach a new or existing relationship, you focus on the wonderful gifts your partner brings and in that you feel elated, as it is a mirror, a reflection of the gifts within yourself.  When you focus on the thorns, the elation decreases.  The purpose of any union is to elevate the vibration you hold for yourself multiplied exponentially.  That is why unions are sought after in the first place.  When two people find each other in vibrational alignment, the union takes the vibration up.  IF you are not in sync with the wholeness of you, you will attract from this vibrational place.  Love yourself, Dear One.  Take the time to appreciate your own gifts first then you will have much to offer your partner.  When you learn to be with yourself in full appreciation, you will never feel lonely or in need of companionship, only that the union will elevate your vibration.  Find time for you and We will provide the aligned relationships.